on traveling by yourself

I think everyone needs to travel alone at least once in their life. It doesn't need to be to a foreign land, or for weeks at a time, but it's an experience I think everyone should have.

Traveling alone is different. You deal with yourself a lot more. You eat by yourself. (Try to not bring your phone with you to the table---it's a challenge) You eat the entire bread basket...by yourself. (or maybe that's just me) You learn to appreciate everything around you. Sounds of the beach. Sounds coming from the elderly client next to you discussing how mundane they've become (maybe that's just me again.)

I went to Fort Lauderdale this weekend for a quick day trip (like 24 hours actually) after a client meeting in Miami. Checked into the hotel, checked into dinner at 3030 Restaurant (my favorite) and ordered enough wine to celebrate a quick day at the beach and to celebrate the ending to a good work week.











Justin Timberlake : Mirrors on SNL

I'm dying with this. Pure dying. Even the backup singers can't help but get lost in the music. SO GOOD.




A first timer at Bikram Yoga

I'm not into yoga. I'm really bad at it. I'm not that flexible and for some reason I just can't hit poses for that long or bend sideways with my leg behind my head. (Sounds easy right?) But yet - despite knowing all of this, I decided to take Bikram Yoga this morning on my President's Day off.

I'm not a 100% newbie to yoga. I took a class a few months back at Area Yoga in Brooklyn. More of the Vinyasa style. Moving, but not sweating. Relaxing and yet I got a workout. I liked it but it wasn't a "workout" to me...compared to what I normally do for fitness: 2-3 high intensity SoulCycle classes every week, and runs around Central Park when it's warmer out.

But that said, I knew I needed to do something different. Everyone says you need to switch up your body workouts, change it up a bit so it hits different muscles. So I did.

Bikram is interesting. There's definitely a smell. There's a vibe. There are sounds people make that you don't understand and there is a lot of skin showing. But it's good. You SWEAT. My friend Matt told me I'd probably look down and have a pool of sweat underneath me. He was correct. You hit 26 posts. (Found them here on Pinterest naturally.)

I probably hit 3 out of the 26 poses properly, but I am told that's OK. I felt relaxed at the end and had a clear head. They are very good to newbies and are helpful and understanding. I mean, not everyone can hit those poses right away. I also understand why they tell you not to drink alcohol before. Going in there with a hangover would be absolutely brutal.

If you're interested in going check out Bikram Yoga NYC. They offer a newbie deal for the first week - $27 = 7 days unlimited. One class is $25 so it's pretty much a deal even if you go twice.

Run to this: Bastille Pompeii

I have moments in Soul Cycle classes when I close my eyes and just get lost in the music. (It happened this weekend and I missed a couple of intervals but I didn't even care) I constantly keep an ear out for good songs that will improve my mood, whether at work or on the dreaded treadmill as the temperature continues to never be appealing for a run at 7am...sorry 3 degree weather.

Bastille, one of my latest favorites has that song. It's been on repeat since Friday. Pompeii. It's not out until March officially on their new album but the early releases have me playing this on repeat. Plus the new video is just awesome.

Enjoy.




Listen to This: St. Lucia

I never go early to shows because I don't like waiting around to see the opening acts. That, and I'm also probably running late from pre-show dinner with my friends who decided that "ONE MORE GLASS" was a good idea so we're running in late.

Last night my sister and I saw Ellie Goulding at Terminal 5, but showed up early to see their opener St. Lucia. SO GLAD WE DID. This guy is good. The music is just clear and catchy and I immediately whispered (well, yelled amongst the loud folks surrounding me to my sister nearby) - I NEED THIS.

Top song I'm digging from them here:




Welcome Back Girls! We've Missed You.


Bless you Lena Dunham for your writing, your wit, and your willingness to put it out there all over again for Season 2.

The show has turned into more of an event of "let me check off how many things I (or one of my friends) has done from the episode" vs. a "hey let's watch this great show on TV!". (NO I haven't made out with a gay guy...that I know of at least...but wait I totally know someone who has.)

Shoshanna is my absolute starting favorite so far this season (Her karaoke. Her pretend DJing. Everything.). I want to yell at Marnie to eat a hamburger. Hannah needs to stop changing bed pans for her ex boyfriend and Jessa - please do not divorce or do anything mean to Thomas John (Chris O'Dowd) because I LOVE HIM.

Welcome back Girls. We love you. AND APPARENTLY SO DOES EVERYONE ELSE.





The New Drink (Sanity Keeper) - The English Margarita at Ditch Plains




Sometimes days happen where meetings run into meetings. Sleep doesn't seem to come as easily even if your normal routine of watching SVU before bed hasn't changed in months. Your muscles ache from "oh so good" workouts and yet you're still trying to get things going in the new year on a schedule that is normal.

These are the days when the only thing that will keep you (me) smiling (or not punching someone) is a dark bar, a good friend and a drink that just hits the spot.

This was last night. The drink: English Margarita. The bar: Ditch Plains. The mood: Immediately improved.

This just may be my new cocktail for the summer/year. Tequila, Cucumber water, lime juice, crushed ice. Put it in a PINT GLASS. That's it!





Happy New Year!

DJ Earworm does it again with this mashup of 2012 and all of the great songs that were released. FUN, Rihanna, Katy Perry, Kelly Clarkson, Gotye, Adele - basically my obsessions and something I think I definitely heard in Soul Cycle. Listen and download it. You're welcome.




Bastille - Flaws (Recorded at Abbey Road)

This guy's voice is gorgeous. This song and instrumental accompaniment just work. 




Why People Magazine Got It 100% Right This Year With Channing Tatum



THANK YOU PEOPLE MAGAZINE!!!


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